Pre Indian Wedding Rituals in Whittier

Rathika + Prem

Location

  • Ceremony: Private Residence in Whittier, CA

Introduction

We got introduced to Rathika + Prem through our good friend Anna of Anna Mae Lam Photography.  Rathika + Prem have been inseparable ever since they first met in medical school where she was a first year student while he was in his third year.  The only thing that really kept them apart was for a time when they had a long distance relationship with Prem on the East Coast and Rathika on West.   Prem actually used it to his advantage when deciding to propose.  He told Rathika that there was retreat in San Francisco that they had to go to, but they were staying in Lake Tahoe.  When they got there it was actually both sides of the family gathered to witness the big proposal!

beautiful pose of south asian wedding couple

Rathika + Prem look deeply into each others eyes after the rituals have been performed.

Ganesha Puja in Whittier

Family and friends gathered at Prem’s parents’ residence for Rathika + Prem’s pre Indian wedding rituals in Whittier.  The day started with Prem and his parents paying respect to Lord Ganesh during the Ganesha Puja.  Lord Ganesh is widely revered as the remover of obstacles, which is why he is always honored at the start of rituals and ceremonies.

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Wide shot of the priest in front of the alter where the rituals and ceremonies will be performed


sadhu aids in putting on dhoti on groom

The priest helps Prem get into his outfit.


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During the puja, Prem presents the flame in a circular motion over the alter.


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Prem glances over and smiles at his mother during the puja.


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The priest sprinkles some water over the Prem while chanting.


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Yellow sacred thread is tied to Prem’s wrist so that he can be pure in his thought, word and deed.


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Beautiful portrait of our lovely bride Rathika during the ceremony.


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Great grandmother thrilled to see her great granddaughter all dressed up.


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Family portrait of the siblings

Haldi Ceremony in Whittier

The Haldi Ceremony was conducted shortly afterwards.  In this ceremony, a yellowish paste (haldi) which is made up of sandalwood powder and milk, was applied to Prem’s face, neck, hands, arms, and feet by people in attendance.  This is said to purify the body and keep evil spirits away.  It also has properties of leaving the skin fair and glowing.  Prem found some time to joke with Rathika that he was now the Beauty and she was the Beast while he was covered in the yellow substance.

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Portrait of Prem with his family prior to the Haldi ceremony.


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Sister Hema applies some haldi on Prem’s nose as mom looks on.


indian groom prepares for haldi from mother in law during indian wedding in whittier

Prem prepares for his mother-in-law to apply some haldi on his face.


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Prem’s family presents him with his clothes after the Haldi ceremony.


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After a quick bath and getting dressed, Prem’s mother adjust her son’s gold and garland.


red tilaka applied on indian groom's forehead during pre indian wedding rituals in whittier

The priest applies a red tilaka on Prem’s forehead.


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Prem is handed some twigs and flower which will be used for building the sacred fire.


bride talks sweet nothings to indian groom while observing fire ceremony

Every time Rathika leaned in to say something to Prem during the ceremony, he would give just the biggest smile.


bride and groom pose for camera before sacred fire ceremony

The lovely couple take time to glance at the camera prior to building the fire.


ghee poured on sacred fire during indian wedding in whittier

Ghee is poured to build the sacred fire suring this ritual.


hindu priest applies sacred ash to groom's forehead during pre Indian wedding rituals

The priest applies some of the sacred ash onto Prem’s forehead during the pre Indian wedding rituals.


guests toss flower petals over Indian groom during indian wedding ceremony in whittier

Guests toss flower petals over our groom Prem and his parents. He is now ready to be married.


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Prem gets some help in adjusting his garland from his brother in law.


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A gift of pearls is presented to Prem from his future mother in law.


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Rathika’s future in-laws feed her Prem’s favorite sweet.


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Intimate kissing between Rathika + Prem in front of the water fountain in front of the residence.


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Portrait of Rathika + Prem during their pre Indian wedding rituals in Whittier.


Wide shot of our lovely couple in front of the winding driveway at their parents' residence.

Wide shot of our lovely couple in front of the winding driveway at their parents’ residence.

Mendhi Ceremony in Whittier

Later in the evening, the pre Indian wedding rituals in Whittier continued with the Mendhi Ceremony.  Rathika was already out in Huntington Beach receiving her family at the actual wedding venue.  This left the women at Prem’s parents’ residence to get some henna applied to their hands.  Prem opted for something truly unique and had his background in mind when he asked for some henna of the bone structure on his foot.

The evening concluded with Prem’s sister, her husband, and their daughter performing a sweet little dance performance to get the festivities for the weekend started.

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Standard portrait of Prem with his family while waiting for their guests.


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The henna artist begins on a design on Prem’s cousin’s hand.


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The intricate designs of the henna flowing down one finger.


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Prem’s aunt receives some henna on the palm of her hands during the mendhi ceremony in Whittier.


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A close up of the design on the palm of her hand


creative off camera flash shot of groom getting henna on feet during pre indian wedding rituals mendhi ceremony

Creative shot of Prem getting some henna applied to his foot.


groom gets bone structure henna on foot during mendhi ceremony in whittier wedding photographer

Prem wanted the henna artist to recreate the bone structure in his foot, which is a truly unique idea.


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Hema, Prem’s sister, and her family perform a little dance number to get the weekend festivities started.


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Prem is entertained by the dance performance by his family.

Conclusion

Thank you Rathika + Prem in allowing us to witness your pre Indian wedding rituals in your parents’ beautiful residence in Whittier overlooking everything.  We are sure that all of the other wedding festivities were as fun as these were.  We hope you two are enjoying yourselves on your honeymoon out there in New Zealand!

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Romantic portrait of Rathika + Prem sitting on the stairs.

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